George Eliot quotes
George Eliot about Consequences, Privacy, Public
Consequences are unpitying.
There is no private life which has not been determined by a wider public life.
The beginning of an acquaintance whether with persons or things is to get a definite outline of our ignorance.
Play not with paradoxes. That caustic which you handle in order to scorch others may happen to sear your own fingers and make them dead to the quality of things.
I like not only to be loved, but also to be told I am loved.
The sons of Judah have to choose that God may again choose them. The divine principle of our race is action, choice, resolved memory.
Worldly faces never look so worldly as at a funeral. They have the same effect of grating incongruity as the sound of a coarse voice breaking the solemn silence of night.
Nothing is so good as it seems beforehand.

George Eliot about Inspiration, Achievements, Love
Also about
Relationships, Adventure, Vanity, Future
The important work of moving the world forward does not wait to be done by perfect men.
What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined - to strengthen each other - to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.
Adventure is not outside man; it is within.
Vanity is as ill at ease under indifference as tenderness is under a love which it cannot return.
I desire no future that will break the ties with the past.

The only failure one should fear, is not hugging to the purpose they see as best.
Blessed is the influence of one true, loving human soul on another.
Every woman is supposed to have the same set of motives, or else to be a monster.
There is a sort of jealousy which needs very little fire; it is hardly a passion, but a blight bred in the cloudy, damp despondency of uneasy egoism.
And when a woman's will is as strong as the man's who wants to govern her, half her strength must be concealment.
No evil dooms us hopelessly except the evil we love, and desire to continue in, and make no effort to escape from.
All the learnin' my father paid for was a bit o' birch at one end and an alphabet at the other.
We hand folks over to God's mercy, and show none ourselves.
A difference of taste in jokes is a great strain on the affections.
When we get to wishing a great deal for ourselves, whatever we get soon turns into mere limitation and exclusion.
George Eliot about Love, Men & Women, Wife
For what is love itself, for the one we love best? An enfolding of immeasurable cares which yet are better than any joys outside our love.
That's what a man wants in a wife, mostly; he wants to make sure one fool tells him he's wise.
Animals are such agreeable friends - they ask no questions; they pass no criticisms.
Science is properly more scrupulous than dogma. Dogma gives a charter to mistake, but the very breath of science is a contest with mistake, and must keep the conscience alive.
An election is coming. Universal peace is declared, and the foxes have a sincere interest in prolonging the lives of the poultry.
George Eliot about Women, Sexism, Words
Also about
Understanding, Moments
I'm not denyin' the women are foolish. God Almighty made 'em to match the men.
Our words have wings, but fly not where we would.
A toddling little girl is a centre of common feeling which makes the most dissimilar people understand each other.
I should like to know what is the proper function of women, if it is not to make reasons for husbands to stay at home, and still stronger reasons for bachelors to go out.
The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us, and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.
George Eliot about Personality, Achievements, Great
Our deeds still travel with us from afar, and what we have been makes us what we are.
No great deed is done by falterers who ask for certainty.
In every parting there is an image of death.
Little children are still the symbol of the eternal marriage between love and duty.
When death comes it is never our tenderness that we repent from, but our severity.
George Eliot about Relationships, Society, Humanism
Hostesses who entertain much must make up their parties as ministers make up their cabinets, on grounds other than personal liking.
More helpful than all wisdom is one draught of simple human pity that will not forsake us.
Breed is stronger than pasture.
Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth seeking the successive autumns.
I like trying to get pregnant. I'm not so sure about childbirth.
George Eliot about Christianity, Faith, Action
Also about
Men & Women, Passion, Affection, Feelings, Discipline, Genius
We must not sit still and look for miracles; up and doing, and the Lord will be with thee. Prayer and pains, through faith in Christ Jesus, will do anything.
Iteration, like friction, is likely to generate heat instead of progress.
It is a common enough case, that of a man being suddenly captivated by a woman nearly the opposite of his ideal.
To have in general but little feeling, seems to be the only security against feeling too much on any particular occasion.
Genius at first is little more than a great capacity for receiving discipline.
George Eliot about Ignorance, Cruelty, Kindness
Also about
Professions, Success, Vocation, Experience, Genius, Sexism, Wisdom, Foolishness
Ignorant kindness may have the effect of cruelty; but to be angry with it as if it were direct cruelty would be an ignorant unkindness.
The best augury of a man's success in his profession is that he thinks it the finest in the world.
Is it not rather what we expect in men, that they should have numerous strands of experience lying side by side and never compare them with each other?
You may try but you can never imagine what it is to have a man's form of genius in you, and to suffer the slavery of being a girl.
In the vain laughter of folly wisdom hears half its applause.
Failure after long perseverance is much grander than never to have a striving good enough to be called a failure.
Cruelty, like every other vice, requires no motive outside of itself; it only requires opportunity.
Blessed is the man, who having nothing to say, abstains from giving wordy evidence of the fact.
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
Belief consists in accepting the affirmations of the soul; unbelief, in denying them.
George Eliot about Friendship, Despair, Truth
Perhaps the most delightful friendships are those in which there is much agreement, much disputation, and yet more personal liking.
There is no despair so absolute as that which comes with the first moments of our first great sorrow, when we have not yet known what it is to have suffered and be healed, to have despaired and have recovered hope.
Falsehood is easy, truth so difficult.
Truth has rough flavours if we bite it through.
It is easy to say how we love new friends, and what we think of them, but words can never trace out all the fibers that knit us to the old.
George Eliot about Great, Jealousy, Hatred
Also about
Friendship
It always remains true that if we had been greater, circumstance would have been less strong against us.
Jealousy is never satisfied with anything short of an omniscience that would detect the subtlest fold of the heart.
There are some cases in which the sense of injury breeds not the will to inflict injuries and climb over them as a ladder, but a hatred of all injury.
It will never rain roses: when we want to have more roses we must plant more trees.
Quarrel? Nonsense; we have not quarreled. If one is not to get into a rage sometimes, what is the good of being friends?
Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them.
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
Marriage must be a relation either of sympathy or of conquest.
A woman's heart must be of such a size and no larger, else it must be pressed small, like Chinese feet; her happiness is to be made as cakes are, by a fixed recipe.
The egoism which enters into our theories does not affect their sincerity; rather, the more our egoism is satisfied, the more robust is our belief.
George Eliot about Despair, Language, Simplicity
But what we call our despair is often only the painful eagerness of unfed hope.
The finest language is mostly made up of simple unimposing words.
The world is full of hopeful analogies and handsome, dubious eggs, called possibilities.
Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together.
In spite of his practical ability, some of his experience had petrified into maxims and quotations.
George Eliot about Happiness, Lifesense, Help
Also about
Opposition, Tolerance, Responsibility, Humour, Age
Whether happiness may come or not, one should try and prepare one's self to do without it.
What do we live for, if not to make life less difficult for each other?
Opposition may become sweet to a man when he has christened it persecution.
The responsibility of tolerance lies with those who have the wider vision.
The years between fifty and seventy are the hardest. You are always being asked to do things, and yet you are not decrepit enough to turn them down.
No story is the same to us after a lapse of time; or rather we who read it are no longer the same interpreters.
The strongest principle of growth lies in the human choice.
If we had a keen vision of all that is ordinary in human life, it would be like hearing the grass grow or the squirrel's heart beat, and we should die of that roar which is the other side of silence.
There are many victories worse than a defeat.
The beginning of compunction is the beginning of a new life.
George Eliot about Duty, People, History
Also about
Vice, Obscurity, Duality, Self-determination, Smile
We must find our duties in what comes to us, not in what might have been.
You should read history and look at ostracism, persecution, martyrdom, and that kind of thing. They always happen to the best men, you know.
Might, could, would - they are contemptible auxiliaries.
Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds.
Wear a smile and have friends; wear a scowl and have wrinkles.
George Eliot about Experience, Wit, People
Also about
Mother, Affection, Ignorance, Knowledge
But human experience is usually paradoxical, that means incongruous with the phrases of current talk or even current philosophy.
People who can't be witty exert themselves to be devout and affectionate.
Life began with waking up and loving my mother's face.
We long for an affection altogether ignorant of our faults. Heaven has accorded this to us in the uncritical canine attachment.
Knowledge slowly builds up what Ignorance in an hour pulls down.
George Eliot about Poverty, Hobby, Personality
Also about
Control, Affection, Literature, Press, Inspiration, Lifesense, Vocation
One must be poor to know the luxury of giving!
Hobbies are apt to run away with us, you know; it doesn't do to be run away with. We must keep the reins.
I have the conviction that excessive literary production is a social offence.
There is a great deal of unmapped country within us which would have to be taken into account in an explanation of our gusts and storms.
It is never too late to be what you might have been.
George Eliot about Loneliness, Freedom, City
Also about
Motivation, Indifference, Compliment
What loneliness is more lonely than distrust?
The intense happiness of our union is derived in a high degree from the perfect freedom with which we each follow and declare our own impressions.
Rome - the city of visible history, where the past of a whole hemisphere seems moving in funeral procession with strange ancestral images and trophies gathered from afar.
What makes life dreary is the want of a motive.
No compliment can be eloquent, except as an expression of indifference.